We are prepared by September 1 – as not to frighten away child from the school
Thus, this time is alien – on September 1 or [peryy] time in the first class. Probably, for the fact that the child sometimes will go into the first class, we, mummy, we begin to be prepared almost from its generation itself. Mentally we visualize our [dityatko] in the new elegant form or the costumer from the needle, with the bouquet of colors atilt, and, of course, we understand, how this is important stage in the life of each child.
For sure, in connection with this you they very often attend recollections about their own experiences apropos of entering into the first class. You, of course, remember the [volnitelnoe] morning on September 1 your first school day, when entire family rose neither light nor dawn in order to carry out its small student into the school.
So here, council the first: you will compulsorily share with your recollections with your child. Let he understand that its situation is not unique, that you once experienced the same mixed feelings of happiness, agitation, anticipation and anxiety. Moreover this will show your first-grader that with mom it is possible to share by its school experiences subsequently.
You remember, as the huge amount of new rules and responsibilities immediately was piled on you. Prepare your child for this also. But avoid the sharp passages: let the new responsibilities become the pleasant indices of its [vzroslosti], but not the heavy burden of responsibility, which suddenly will fall down to it. But in order to add to the appeared responsibilities pleasant note, devise to its child and new “rights”, i.e., some privileges from the adult life: to lie down to sleep on half-hour later than the usual, very to make to itself a sandwich in [mikrovolnovke] or still something insignificant, but important for your child.
You will agree that despite the fact that many of us it was in no way desirable after merry vacations to be immersed in the abyss of studies, the day of knowledge on September 1 was nevertheless for us holiday. Try to create the same [volnitelnuyu] atmosphere of holiday, also, for your child. To this will contribute not only the new detail, purchased specially for this case, but also the solemn encounter of your little-one from the school, family dinner in regard to this, but there can be the significant gift.
Give to understand to your child, which everything that in his school life for it has the value, is important also for you. During the first school days compulsorily question your schoolboy about that which with it today interesting occurred in the school, you praise it and encourage. But only make all this sincerely, otherwise child it will suspect wrong. Undoubtedly, you love your child. Use his entering into the first class in order to again show this: be glad together with it at its successes, survive together with it its failures, but on no account you are angered to it for the small omissions. Always recall itself in the same period, and your memory will compulsorily prompt the best output to you.
But so that the change of situation would not be for your child of sudden and very already contrasting, play a little with it “into the school”. You will seat apart for the desks of toy, make the highest and most beautiful doll a teacher, you will equip class with wooden board and piece of chalk, and for the dolls cut writing-books. Let the child dip into the atmosphere of school life in the customary to it domestic situation.
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