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The most common in the world trio willy-nilly – the wife -husband – lover – sometimes easily and naturally turns into a duet . Who it will be – depends on how many mistakes doing some other party .
So , the man ( who, as we know , polygamy is inherently ) started a mistress . Let us now take into account the moral and ethical side of the problem, and so we understand that change is not good that the lover equal to rogue states , and the sinner man branded all the terrible words . We abstract from common and hackneyed view of the situation and look at it from another angle . Let’s change some words in some places . Instead, ” started a mistress , for example, put ” met his true love. ”
Aha – you ask . – Then, before he was five or ten or fifteen lived with love artificial ? – Also incorrect . Love, as we know, is rarely chosen by the social and civil status . Errarum humanum est, or, simply,
in the popular , people are sometimes mistaken. This is typical of him . Have you noticed one day that a woman -winding lover , modern society is somehow more tolerant ? Mol , took her Kolka – goat , that’s an outlet and found . ” Dostavanie ” as ” goat – Manko ” for some reason the category of mitigating circumstances are not equal , and Kolka goat remains in any event.
As the war
In general , the situation is . My husband met a great love. This option, in which the wife sooner or later discovers that there are guaranteed a rival. If a simple campaign ” left ” for the health and diversity still has a chance to remain a mystery , something big and bright sense of Straining a man inside , sooner or later will come out outside . And then the fun begins . Few there are women who are in this situation are able to show generosity and to make sweetheart consumption – to divide the property , explain to children that daddy loves them , but will live in another place , to maintain good relations with the former and on holidays, to congratulate each other . The first reaction of any woman would be offended by the immediate desire to declare war.
On the other side – a mistress . Or , more precisely, that the greatest love of his life . And she also loves. Phrases about ” happiness in someone else’s garden ” , ” other people’s bones ” and other questionable places and strange foundations were now stuffed soreness in the teeth . Everything, absolutely everything happens in this life. We do not condone his mistresses , but let’s at least be as fair and objective : the situation is and it needs to do something . There – his wife on the trail of war , here – new-found favorite in the confusion and tumult : How is it so happen? At the center – the hero of the occasion , which , on the good , we ought to give freedom and cuff , and for him to start now instead be taken lightly battles.
Error number one: Hysterics
Wife. Tears , of course , deduce a stress hormone. And the picture of the current from the corners of his eyes tear makes a woman helpless , fragile , and in the soul of a man born of guilt unprecedented power, but let’s be objective: our women are still beautiful to cry do not know how . Or can , but only on the screens. In reality – sobs whistling , tears stream, throat wheezing, red nose , swollen eyes, broken dishes , waved a child and a frying pan – and a husband who understands that better than to run away from here , and as soon as possible .
Mistress . You early hysteria . You knew what they were . If you really want to cry , practice to let the above picture tears . God forbid you from even a hint of hysteria. Hysteric , most likely , he ate at home to the eyeballs . And if they weep and beat the dishes , then cry and , at best , just crying, without damage to property , then where did he go? And suddenly , again, there do not cry at all? Then dry your tears and do not have time , as Amante will be thrown to seek peace and quiet under the wing of a sudden overgrown virtues wife .
Error number two: The feeling of guilt
Wife. Yes , he is guilty . I ‘ll tell you more – he knows it and he live with this his whole life. Moreover , if he – a man of sense , the degree of guilt estimates adequately, and for the “tainted ” three years of life mansion on Rublevke not build will be thrown . Agree on a reasonable moral and financial compensation. For himself , the children. If, however, with an adequate perception of the world had problems pedaling guilt can , of course, be a confining factor, but that’s only normal male your spouse becomes a hunted creature with a sense of acute mental illness on a background of ever-increasing sense of guilt. It will end because he recognized the organization zhidomasonskogo conspiracy, Kennedy assassination , and you until the end of his days will be wearing it to a clinic of neurosis.
Mistress . The degree of his guilt no more than yours. Of course , if the relationship with non-free person you were walking with their eyes open. He was in front of you is unlikely to something so much time to commit offense . And when trying to call it is not a wonderful feeling , can think . By the way, can backfire. The more you try to call it a sense of guilt in front of you for some things not worthy of attention , the stronger it will activate a sense of guilt towards the abandoned family. ” Yeah – will think a man – then blame the wrong size for the diamond , and there in tattered shoes were all the student youth and not make a sound ever . And if the wife – a literate manipulator , then instead of him for something to blame , it starts at an active spare. And you . And it along with you . You have already guessed what was coming next ?
Error number three: Total control
The wife and mistress. Sniffing , obsharivanie , continuous monitoring of telephone, computer , pockets , neighbors , friends … List of women’s mistakes is endless . A person who is deprived of personal space, sooner or later comes to a sensible conclusion to eliminate the cause of violations of personal boundaries . Telephone and mail – all the same things very intimate . A strange scent of men working in an environment of more than one woman can smell an entirely innocent reasons . And what, exactly , do you hope to find there? It is worth remembering that someone is looking for – and you shall find , and think, if you want.
Error number four: the child waved
Wife. The child – not a bargaining chip . And under no circumstances should not become a tool of manipulation. Psychologists around the world in one voice say : a child who became the reason that two people are forced to live together, grow up , gets numerous complexes , and his childhood was far from happy . Better loving set of parents living apart than living in a constantly tense atmosphere
Mistress. No child in the world could not hold a single man – our moms love to repeat this phrase. Memorize . And look for his wife’s advice to see you, they also belong .