Secrets of Seduction : What makes us irresistible
For the love of science – has long been not such a mystery . All our feelings are the result of natural chemical processes , scientists say . So , these feelings can be easily managed.
For information on how to seduce any man, relying on scientific evidence and experience of generations , wrote in his book English psychologist Andrew Treese . Here are some interesting tips from this creation.
How to make him speak first?
Studies show that the absolute majority of men are opposed to women having an initiative acquaintance . Most of the negative calls the proposal ” to treat him with something ” or an invitation to drink.
So if you want to vending you handsome he started a conversation in your arsenal are only non-verbal ways of communication . For example, open look in the eye and the general quiet smile . Men prefer to start dating yourself , but the object of your attention should be 100 percent sure that you will not refuse him . Here and join the fight for women Tricks: The more you looked at him casually and smile and not take his eyes in a collision of views , the more chances you have to get it. Or rather – about 60% of men unfailingly maintained on such signs .
Moreover , non-verbal signals is much stronger influence on the strong sex , than even the appearance of women. This is the conclusion the researcher Monica Moore , who held a series of experiments in dating . It is estimated Moore, most proposals to continue the evening were not the most attractive ladies, and those who sent soundless signals the most. An average of 35 smiles and attitudes , handed out in an hour , brought on 4 new acquaintances in the same period .
We seem familiar?
According to Andrew Treese , women, members of the inner circle of men who are attracted to an average of 2 times more than casual acquaintances . So look into my friends, colleagues and even neighbors on the bus – maybe someone of them would be a man dreams , and yes even your secret admirer.
If you want to get some macho men from another department at work, but it did not even know his name , again , proceed on a ” let them speak first. ” Try to deal with him as often as possible and do not forget to smile.
Magic beautician
If you do not like to wear makeup , even bothering to use lipstick . Studies show that the brighter the lips of women , the better first impression, it has had on an unknown man. This can partly be explained by the laws of evolution . As each creature instinctively seeks to procreation , men subconsciously choose the partners with the highest reproductive capacity. And the red lips – this is a physiological sign of sexual health of women and their willingness to give birth.
Seize the moment
Another secret of seduction scientists also suggested evolution . Researcher Jeffrey Miller of the University of New Mexico (USA ) found that women are most attractive to men when the most able to conceive . That is the period of ovulation . This conclusion prompted the inquisitive scientist observation … for the strippers, whose tips are directly dependent on their attractiveness.
As Miller discovered , during menstruation ( when the chances of conceiving meager ) income dancers are about $ 35 per hour in the middle of the menstrual cycle , this figure rises to $ 47 , but with the beginning of ovulation time income dancers in the middle reaches 65-70 dollars.
The reason , says Miller, is that men, without knowing it , react to the physiological signs of ovulation ( blush , the increase in the bust, the allocation of specific pheromones in sweat , etc.) and, therefore, regard the women in this period as the most desirable and attractive . In addition , during ovulation in women slightly improved the color and condition of the skin , and is traditionally considered a sign of health and beauty.
In general , the artificial suppression of ovulation, can and will save you from unwanted pregnancy , but it may deprive the chances of any intimate relationships in general . According to the same study Miller, a dancer , ” sitting “on contraception , were consistently the lowest income .
What not to do on a date
One of the biggest English clubs dating conducted a survey among its customers and found that irritates and pushes them on the first date more than anything. Respondents were asked to provide a typical meeting at a restaurant for dinner , and that’s what came of it :
- 46% can not stand when he / she talks during dinner by mobile phone ;
- 41% will not continue relationships with those who Hamit or in conflict with the restaurant staff ;
- 26% of men and 37% of women do not tolerate windbags , constantly talking about his own person;
- 30% confined to a reunion with those who would talk about their ex ;
- 45% of men do not tolerate women speaking on the first interview about his weight , diet or new diet .
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