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Its Said, that the men do not cry. Tears, cries, beating of dishes – to women this is possible. But if man begins to yell and to stamp by feet – already hooliganism is. But in reality man also people. And genuine hysterics also can happen in them.

Shielding reaction
Frequently man hysterics – this is the shielding reaction of psyche in response to the very strong stress. In this case hysterics – as the valve, which makes it possible to decrease the internal pressure and to avoid total destruction.
It two years built its own business, and everything at once was destroyed; it went to make proposal to you, and you invited him to your wedding with other…
His reaction can be very stormy: it will shout, knock by cams against the table, beat salad dishes about the wall. In a word, adequate it is small. And appears this [zhutkovato]. But to here important not frighten, not to begin to sob as the answer, not to get under the hot hand with the admonitions or the comforts. Move aside and hush. Wait for, until it is quieted, and only then can approach-embrace- kiss. It is very affectionate and it is tender. If this is appropriate in your relations, a good means of damping can be sex.

Force of the woman
So that the man would begin to yell and to splash by saliva, are in no way required strong shakings. When it is desired to bring to hysterics it is possible of any. Assuredly make this they can two people – mom and the dear woman.
Men – essence are logical. They rapidly transfer their problems into the rank of tasks and they decide. But here women possess the surprising ability to set in principle as a unreal goals: “I want so that you would earn, but not serpent to drive into the missions! ”, “either I or your work! ”, “either I or your mom! ”… It cannot either satisfy the condition, or logically base, why this cannot be made. But you continue to require, simultaneously threatening by withdrawal and methodically speculating on the feeling of guilt: “To you it was always to me spit!” In this situation the man begins to shout from the desperation.
If in it hysterics nevertheless occurs, it is important to here [prikusit] language. You bent stick. It is not necessary to be started still stronger and to continue to explain relations. It is necessary to stop in the requirements and to try to understand the logic of man. Most likely, it rejects something to make because of the objective circumstances, but not of the harmfulness. But you should change something in this life: either its requirements or the form of the presentation of these requirements. Because it is not possible to constantly force man into the angle.

It is terrible, the horror
Sometimes in men hysterics from the fear occurs. Frequently these are ridiculous fears. It fears prick, fears to go to the dental doctor, fears to fly on the aircraft. This occurs in the men of over-anxious or in those, who love to control everything in their life. But when the discussion deals with that region, in which from them according to the large calculation nothing it depends, present panic begins in them. They begin to behave as the unreasonable children: they can begin to shout, to be calmed down on the sex and to state that anywhere they will not go. But still they can get drunk…
Do not laugh above it, to it and truth it is very terrible. Relate to it as to the child. Comfort, promise to go and to purchase toy for the adult boy. And do not forget, that kindness and logic in such cases act very effectively.

Theater of one actor
Besides hysterics – instantaneous reaction there is another hysterics as a way of life. Typical of man- hysterics is not spent on the trifles. This to you not female whims of the type ” purchase to me sheath”. Such psycho-types select to themselves wide audience, for their exponential appearances the crowd is necessary to them. The crowd of journalists, subordinated, it is simple crowd. But further begins the forcing of emotions, cries, exaltation.
It is at first glance, this looks like instantaneous pulse. In reality these are the well counted step, unique [piar]- action. Politics, revolutionaries and generals skillfully develop similar hysterics in order to cause necessary reaction in the public, and to then bring it after themselves.
In private life, of course, similar things appear pitifully and absurdly. But if to you was reached this here cancelled general, it is necessary to play the role of the troops. From you it is required to in time depict fright, enthusiasm, agitation, i.e., to issue the expected emotions.
Otherwise instead of the counted appearance it is possible to obtain other hysterics – already not controlled.

“Real” man
[O]! This is the most interesting type of [isterikov]. Outwardly man of such type – present [macho]. Intra- typical rams, in the worst sense of this word. Romantic, sentimental, jealous, they noticeably understand women, more precisely is created the illusion of understanding. You want marry – he will describe to you about the wedding. You want child – he will want him together with you. You do not want child – he will become convinced of [chayldfri]. He will beautifully care and by hours listen your monologues.
But he will as soon as understand that you fell, he will change. It will begin to knock by cams on the table and to yell. It will dictate the conditions: when to you to come, what to bear, where to work and with whom to be friends. And God forbid you it [oslushaeshsya]! This is this masked type of the tyrant, who by his hysterics will attain one – complete control over your life.
Council here can be one: however, during the first manifestations of similar symptoms, after first hysterics it is necessary to run from this man further. It is rapid without the caution.?

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