Paris in the Valentine’s Day. What could be more romantic? Only on February 14 in Paris at the Hotel Shangri-La! The hotel is located a few steps from the main sights – the Eiffel Tower, Champs Elysées and the Orsay Museum De.

A couple can choose from 81 rooms and suites available to the hotel. Among them – Suite La Suite Chaillot, with a balcony overlooking the Eiffel Tower.

The room will be waiting for Valentine’s bouquet of flowers and champagne. Also, prepare for them a fruit basket and chocolate.

Offer price starts from 645 euros per night, including breakfast at the restaurant La Bauhinia.

Spend the holiday of lovers can be in a romantic, quiet and peaceful Geneva , for example, deals in Le Richemond. Away from the hustle and bustle where you can enjoy a bottle of champagne on arrival and Deutz, as well as spa treatments, “Magic moment for Two”, which include 60 minutes of massage each, private baths and, of course, champagne. All the fun will cost from 742 euros per day.

Design hotel in Rovinj (Croatia) Hotel Lone pleasant days are also prepared with romance: two days in an apartment hotel, where upon his arrival in the room will be waiting for a gift bottle of champagne. Also special offer includes a visit to the Spa Wellness & Spa Lone with the two procedures to choose from – moisturizing facial or massage, dinner at the restaurant “L”, breakfast room and, most importantly, late check-out. Offer price 395 euros, is valid from 14 to 19 February 2012.

Lovers can go to Milan : shopping and romantic night in Milan, so to speak, combine business with pleasure … pleasure. Hotel Principe di Savoia offer is valid on December 31, 2012, so your holiday can be arranged any day. Breakfast in the room, a gym Club 10 Fitness & Beauty Center, as well as moisturizing facial, massage and a 10% discount on additional spa treatments at Club 10. To maintain the festive atmosphere will provide guests with a limo that will take them to the city center and back. Late check-out at 16.00 finish “pleasantness” of rest. Cost – € 400.

Hotel Savoy Hotel in Florence offers not only enjoy the luxury suites, champagne in the room and breakfast in bed, but a two-hour stroll through the city center with a professional photographer. Then get a couple of moments etched disc with this romantic trip. Price – from 427 euros per person per night.

With the royal glamor can spend this holiday in Vienna , for example, in one of the most luxurious hotels in the Austrian capital – Palais Coburg. Special SUITE FOR MY SWEET includes two nights at the hotel, champagne and breakfast in the room, a surprise for Valentine’s dinner by candlelight, and a five course meal with wine at the famous Vienna for the whole restaurant. A walk through the city center in a horse-drawn carriage completes a fabulous evening. In the tale of two would cost 2130 euros (2 nights).

For those who do not want or can not go to Europe, Moscow and St. Petersburg , too, found something interesting. The hotel Ritz-Carlton Moscow is waiting for guests bohemian party in the style of 20-ies. “G2 Lounge” on the 12th floor will turn into a decadent oasis of European bohemia. So the romance provided! The room will be waiting for a bottle of sparkling wine, a gift from the confectioner and a bed strewn with rose petals. Offer comes at a price of 600 euros.

Attractive offers to February 14 can also boast Barvikha Hotel & Spa and the Ararat Park Hyatt.

In St. Petersburg “Astoria” reigns “True Romance”, which includes apartments with champagne, chocolates and flowers, dinner at a restaurant, “Davidov” and massage with a full complement of pleasures – candles, rose petals and a dessert. Price – 840 euros per night.

W Hotel in St. Petersburg is also prepared for Valentine’s program spetstsene 425 euros, which includes champagne and chocolates on arrival, dinner for two at the restaurant miX in St. Petersburg, the procedure in the Bliss Spa, Wonderful room with lots of romantic surprises and late check-out.

So, love , great , ethereal, inexplicable and inspiring – lasts for a year, not three, not ten, as naively believed dilettantes . Its time … 20-30 seconds .

There are four stages of romantic relationships.

First – the stage of love.

This condition , when our ego , sense of self- importance, it dissolves . For example , I walk down the street and see a beautiful stranger , its beauty captivates me, and I like to disappear into it without a trace . Everything I do , there is only he, and we with him – one. This state of total integrity , when there are no expectations. For me at this moment it does not matter , one of the stranger or his wife or girlfriend. I fully dissolved in it and not remember anything about himself.

Here it is , Love with a capital letter !

Ruthless psychologists argue that this condition usually lasts from several seconds to several days . And occasionally it may be delayed for years , but – with the full inaccessibility of the object of love. For example , such may be the love of any movie star. It is such a thing as love to the beautiful Lady Knights in the era of the troubadours, because the object of passion was mostly unavailable. Healers of souls have asked us to immediately leave these books illusion and not wait for this love from their partners .

The second stage – the stage of ownership .

The essence of this state – ” to have . At this stage two people go immediately after they met , because as soon as there was contact , immediately arise mutual expectations , what is sometimes known as the words ” faith “and “hope ” . The formula of these expectations -conditions is quite simple : “If you will meet my expectations, I will love you again . ” Since we are talking about property relations , the first and most important expectation – people will belong only to me. Psychologists offer a return for a moment in the school years and imagine the class. We enter and sit down at a certain desk , we obtain a black pen and large letters, displaying his initials on it , telling everyone: “Now it’s my party ! ” And only mine! ”

Compare this state with a state of love, as described above . Among them – a tremendous difference .

Love is in the second stage is possible if the object is fully consistent with expectations, it is almost impossible , and therefore at this stage are common frustration and jealousy. And, of course , insults . (By the way , what is ” wrong “? Psychologists say that is a condition where a person does not express openly their dissatisfaction , believing that the object itself must all understand .)

How long stage property ? From a few seconds to tens of years . By the way, for this stage is characterized by another statement : ” I’m without you can not ! ” Indeed, the bad without desks with personal initials …

The third stage – stage of manipulation .

At this stage steam passes when one partner is aware of the mission , the sphere in which they both are. Mission – this sense that, for what they ” met ” . The family is raising a child in the social sphere – mutual aid and support , implementation needs to communicate. So , one partner is aware of the mission , while the second can not. In this case, the first begins to forcibly manipulate others . For example, my wife knows that her husband of her “walking “. At the previous stage , she rolled scandals, was jealous because her husband did not meet its expectations and did not want to be only her property . Finally, she realized that , in the end , they are family , live together for the sake of children, and that their education is the meaning of relationship here and now. Alas , my husband is not aware of this . What can we do it ? For the sake of the family , she begins to pretend that everything is normal , she did not notice ” of his long absence or smell strange perfume on his shirt … About these women usually say that they are wise. And this is true.

As soon as the partners move to this stage , the number of scandals dramatically decreases the life of the family to normal.

Although, unfortunately , this appeasement is based on a forced lie.

The fourth stage – the stage of cooperation.

Now the second partner to realize the mission of relations . So , no need for manipulation. There is a possibility of direct and sincere relations , the expression of genuine feelings.

At this stage there is a clear division of roles and have a common goal ( raising children , getting sexual pleasure , help each other – depending on the scope ) . You may have seen those couples , where two people live together , bring up , for example , a child , but both have open sexual relationships on the side . Psychologists say that it is not queer , but people who have reached the highest point in their relationship and being in this happiness. No jealousy at this stage no longer exists, so

there is no sense of ownership. Link partners based on sincerity and understanding , each of them seems to be saying : ” I can live without you , but I’m not comfortable . ”

As history shows , these couples – the strongest , and their relationship – the longest .

The vast majority of couples (90 percent ) in their entire life together does not go beyond the stage of ownership. 7 percent of couples reaching the third stage , and only a fraction of pairs gets to the stage of cooperation .

Why ? Experts assure that we interfere with their own attitudes , beliefs , and beliefs , and simply the absence of basic psychological education . And the offer , looking for a positive Western experience , to apply to family psychology. After all, if we have a headache , we do not tolerate , and take the medicine. So why do not we take the same care to his soul and his love , puzzled psychologists .

For information on how to seduce any man, relying on scientific evidence and experience of generations , wrote in his book English psychologist Andrew Treese . Here are some interesting tips from this creation.

How to make him speak first?

Studies show that the absolute majority of men are opposed to women having an initiative acquaintance . Most of the negative calls the proposal ” to treat him with something ” or an invitation to drink.

So if you want to vending you handsome he started a conversation in your arsenal are only non-verbal ways of communication . For example, open look in the eye and the general quiet smile . Men prefer to start dating yourself , but the object of your attention should be 100 percent sure that you will not refuse him . Here and join the fight for women Tricks: The more you looked at him casually and smile and not take his eyes in a collision of views , the more chances you have to get it. Or rather – about 60% of men unfailingly maintained on such signs .

Moreover , non-verbal signals is much stronger influence on the strong sex , than even the appearance of women. This is the conclusion the researcher Monica Moore , who held a series of experiments in dating . It is estimated Moore, most proposals to continue the evening were not the most attractive ladies, and those who sent soundless signals the most. An average of 35 smiles and attitudes , handed out in an hour , brought on 4 new acquaintances in the same period .

We seem familiar?

According to Andrew Treese , women, members of the inner circle of men who are attracted to an average of 2 times more than casual acquaintances . So look into my friends, colleagues and even neighbors on the bus – maybe someone of them would be a man dreams , and yes even your secret admirer.

If you want to get some macho men from another department at work, but it did not even know his name , again , proceed on a ” let them speak first. ” Try to deal with him as often as possible and do not forget to smile.

Magic beautician

If you do not like to wear makeup , even bothering to use lipstick . Studies show that the brighter the lips of women , the better first impression, it has had on an unknown man. This can partly be explained by the laws of evolution . As each creature instinctively seeks to procreation , men subconsciously choose the partners with the highest reproductive capacity. And the red lips – this is a physiological sign of sexual health of women and their willingness to give birth.

Seize the moment

Another secret of seduction scientists also suggested evolution . Researcher Jeffrey Miller of the University of New Mexico (USA ) found that women are most attractive to men when the most able to conceive . That is the period of ovulation . This conclusion prompted the inquisitive scientist observation … for the strippers, whose tips are directly dependent on their attractiveness.

As Miller discovered , during menstruation ( when the chances of conceiving meager ) income dancers are about $ 35 per hour in the middle of the menstrual cycle , this figure rises to $ 47 , but with the beginning of ovulation time income dancers in the middle reaches 65-70 dollars.

The reason , says Miller, is that men, without knowing it , react to the physiological signs of ovulation ( blush , the increase in the bust, the allocation of specific pheromones in sweat , etc.) and, therefore, regard the women in this period as the most desirable and attractive . In addition , during ovulation in women slightly improved the color and condition of the skin , and is traditionally considered a sign of health and beauty.

In general , the artificial suppression of ovulation, can and will save you from unwanted pregnancy , but it may deprive the chances of any intimate relationships in general . According to the same study Miller, a dancer , ” sitting “on contraception , were consistently the lowest income .

What not to do on a date

One of the biggest English clubs dating conducted a survey among its customers and found that irritates and pushes them on the first date more than anything. Respondents were asked to provide a typical meeting at a restaurant for dinner , and that’s what came of it :

• 46% can not stand when he / she talks during dinner by mobile phone ;
• 41% will not continue relationships with those who Hamit or in conflict with the restaurant staff ;
• 26% of men and 37% of women do not tolerate windbags , constantly talking about his own person;
• 30% confined to a reunion with those who would talk about their ex ;
• 45% of men do not tolerate women speaking on the first interview about his weight , diet or new diet .

1. Pretend that survey public opinion on how best to meet with a man.

2. Wear a T-shirt with his own name on his chest. Guess what your name, do not have to.

3. Say: “Your face seems familiar to me. Where we can meet?” You were not in Bangkok in November? ” (Just do not forget to pre-read a short guide to Bangkok).

4. Standing behind him in line for coffee, start talking about what to choose: mocha, caramel, cappuccino … Then touch him on the shoulder and asked: “What should I order, how do you think?”

5. After a sip of milkshake with whipped cream ask, Are there any cream on your lip. Licking cream a little longer. When he smiles, say that as a child you loved to lick the cream with a celebratory cake before the guests sit down at the table.

6. Ask him the news page of his newspaper’s culture and find out if he had not heard about some interesting new films. If his inspiration for this topic, invited him to the evening session.

7. Stop it matter if he knew where passes premiere – boldly call any play. If a young person is not quite an ignoramus, he burst out laughing, and maybe even invite you to the theater.

8. If he ran out of the office during a lunch break, ask an innocent question, where you can eat. You can go ahead and ask where exactly he and his colleagues go to lunch.

9. Even if he was rushing to work or late for a meeting, you can stop him by asking: “Excuse me, can you tell me how to get to school Hispanic dance at such a street?” Address is better to call somewhere nearby.

10. “Lost” earring. Preferably just where sits “same” man. Carefully examined every centimeter beneath his feet, until he offered his help. Lifted the hair and show him the other earring.

11. If you liked the salesman in a bookstore, ask about some rare book, leave your phone and ask him to call when the book will appear. At any time of day.

12. Take a collection of jokes or humorous stories, and, standing in line, laughing seductively. When you meet his eyes, tell me that you are not crazy – just a book so funny. Come closer to him, to show the most ridiculous places.

13. Dial a pile of books on massage, Thai cooking or rock climbing. Loans to turn into cash, and leave the book under his care while you go to call.

14. Seeing him in the hands of a new intellectual novel, offered to come to the reading of modern prose. To hint that you enter in the number of organizers of the event.

15. After playing a fortune-teller: Honor your destiny with the palm of his girlfriends, and then offered to predict the future and to him. Take him by the hand and gently running her fingers on the palm of your hand, say that it is waiting for a romantic adventure or a meeting that will change his life

A VERSE
In the crowd of times,
I seek you heartily.

A VERSE
Neither I hanker after the stars nor do I love flowers
My life is full of springs because of you alone.

A VERSE
In my world of dreams and thoughts
You alone live unaware.

A VERSE
Ye alone I thought , ye alone worshipped
Ye alone forgot me forever.